Our Surrogate Screening Process
Screening and matching are at the heart of what we do. At Tandem Surrogacy, we take great care in selecting healthy, emotionally prepared gestational carriers and matching them with intended parents in a way that feels thoughtful, personal, and aligned.
We accept only a small percentage of applicants into our program. Every approved Tandem gestational carrier completes a thorough, multi-step screening process designed to protect both the carrier and the family she supports.
How We Screen Gestational Carriers and Match Them With Families
Ethical, responsible surrogacy begins with careful screening. Each gestational carrier in the Tandem program completes a comprehensive evaluation before being approved for matching.
Initial Qualifications
We confirm that each applicant meets foundational requirements, including health history, lifestyle stability, and prior pregnancy experience.
Personal Interview
We take time to understand the carrier’s motivations, communication style, expectations, and support system. This step ensures emotional readiness and alignment with the surrogacy commitment.
Background Checks
Nationwide criminal background screenings are completed to provide peace of mind and protect everyone involved.
Medical Records Review
A reproductive endocrinologist reviews prior pregnancy and delivery records to confirm medical eligibility and reproductive health.
Psychological Evaluation
A licensed mental health professional evaluates emotional preparedness, decision-making, and the strength of the carrier’s support network.
Only after successfully completing all steps does a candidate become an approved Tandem gestational carrier.
How We Match Surrogates With Intended Parents
Surrogate and intended parent matching is never rushed, automated, or transactional. Our gestational carrier matching process is designed to create alignment, trust, and comfort from the very beginning.
We Get to Know You
We begin by understanding your values, communication preferences, boundaries, and medical considerations. These details guide every aspect of the match.
Hand-Selected Profiles
Potential carriers are presented because they align with what matters most to you and not simply because they are available.
Match Meeting
You meet your potential gestational carrier virtually or in person to see whether the connection feels right for both sides.
Mutual Agreement
A match only moves forward when both the intended parents and the gestational carrier feel confident, comfortable, and genuinely aligned.
Legal Agreements and Medical Clearance
Once a match is confirmed, legal contracts and clinic-specific screenings are completed before moving forward with embryo transfer.
Why Families Choose Tandem for Matching Services
Families choose Tandem Surrogacy for surrogate matching services because we prioritize people over volume and care over speed.
- Highly selective gestational carrier screening
- Personalized, values-based matching
- Ongoing guidance through medical and legal steps
- A transparent, supportive, and modern experience
This is not just a process, it is a partnership built on trust.
What to Expect After a Match Is Made
After a successful match, Tandem remains actively involved throughout the remainder of the surrogacy journey. We coordinate next steps, support communication, and help guide both parties through medical appointments, legal milestones, and preparation for pregnancy and birth.
Our goal is to ensure everyone feels informed, supported, and confident at every stage.
Frequently Asked Questions about Screening & Matching
How long does the surrogate matching process usually take?
Matching timelines vary based on preferences, medical considerations, and availability. Because Tandem focuses on personalized, values-based matching rather than volume, the process may take longer than automated programs, but it is designed to create stronger, more aligned matches.
Our team provides realistic timelines and ongoing updates so intended parents always know where they are in the process
Can we decline a match if it doesn’t feel right?
Yes. A match only moves forward when both the intended parents and the gestational carrier feel comfortable and confident. If a connection does not feel right, we continue the matching process without pressure.
Mutual alignment and trust are essential to a healthy surrogacy journey.
How does Tandem ensure gestational carriers are fully prepared?
Every Tandem gestational carrier completes a comprehensive screening process that includes medical record review, psychological evaluation, background checks, and personal interviews.
This process helps ensure carriers are physically healthy, emotionally prepared, and fully informed about the commitment involved before being presented for matching.
Is matching based only on medical criteria?
No. While medical compatibility is essential, Tandem’s matching process also considers values, communication preferences, expectations, and comfort levels.
By looking beyond medical criteria alone, we help create matches that feel more natural, respectful, and sustainable throughout pregnancy and beyond.
