Frequently Asked Questions

Whether you are an intended parent or a gestational carrier, it is natural to have questions about surrogacy. From eligibility and compensation to legal steps and timelines, this page covers answers to the most common surrogacy questions we receive.

If you are exploring surrogacy, our goal is to provide clear, reliable information so you can move forward with confidence.

For Intended Parents

How do I start the surrogacy process?

The first step is to request a consultation with Tandem Surrogacy. During this initial conversation, we will review your goals, explain the surrogacy process, discuss timelines, and answer any questions you may have about moving forward.

How long does it take to match with a gestational carrier?

Matching timelines vary based on preferences, medical considerations, and availability. Most intended parents are matched within a few months after completing the intake process. We focus on thoughtful matching to support a positive experience for everyone involved.

What are the costs involved in surrogacy?

Surrogacy costs can vary depending on medical care, legal fees, surrogate compensation, insurance, and other related expenses. Tandem provides a transparent overview of expected costs and helps intended parents plan and budget with clarity from the beginning.

How does the legal process work?

Surrogacy includes a comprehensive legal agreement that protects both intended parents and gestational carriers. Tandem works closely with experienced reproductive law attorneys who prepare and review all contracts. We guide you through each step so you understand parental rights, responsibilities, and legal timelines.

Can I stay involved during the pregnancy?

Yes. Intended parents are encouraged to remain involved throughout the pregnancy in ways that feel comfortable and respectful for everyone. Tandem helps establish communication preferences and boundaries so the relationship between intended parents and the gestational carrier remains positive and supportive.

For Gestational Carriers

Who can become a gestational carrier?

Gestational carriers are typically women between the ages of 21 and 40 who have had at least one healthy pregnancy and delivery, with no major pregnancy complications. Candidates must meet medical and psychological screening requirements to ensure they are physically and emotionally prepared.

What does the surrogate application process involve?

The process begins with completing an application, followed by medical evaluations, psychological screening, background checks, and a personal interview. Once approved, Tandem works closely with you to find a compatible intended parent match.

How is surrogate compensation determined?

Compensation varies based on experience, location, and clinic requirements. First-time surrogates typically receive between $45,000 and $60,000, while experienced surrogates may receive $60,000 or more. Additional allowances often cover maternity clothing, travel, and related expenses.

What support will I receive during the journey?

Tandem provides continuous support throughout the surrogacy process. This includes coordination of medical appointments, emotional support, legal guidance, and clear communication. Our team is available to answer questions and advocate for your well-being at every stage.

What if I have questions about my rights or the legal process?

Tandem partners with experienced reproductive law attorneys who ensure your rights are protected. We help you understand each legal document and remain available to answer questions before, during, and after the agreement is finalized.

For Everyone

How do I get started with Tandem?

Getting started is simple. Intended parents and gestational carriers can complete the appropriate online form, and a member of our team will reach out to guide you through next steps.

Is the process confidential?

Yes. Privacy and confidentiality are priorities at Tandem Surrogacy. Personal information is handled securely and shared only as necessary to support the surrogacy journey.

How long does a surrogacy journey typically take?

From matching to birth, a surrogacy journey generally takes between 18 and 24 months. Timelines may vary based on medical and legal factors, and Tandem provides guidance to help keep the process as smooth and predictable as possible.

Can LGBTQ individuals and couples pursue surrogacy with Tandem Surrogacy?

Yes. Tandem Surrogacy proudly supports LGBTQ individuals and couples who are building their families through gestational surrogacy. We work with single parents, same-sex couples, and non-traditional families, and we are committed to creating an inclusive, respectful process for everyone.

Our team collaborates with experienced fertility clinics and legal professionals who understand the unique medical and legal considerations that may apply, ensuring every family feels supported from start to finish.

Is a gestational carrier biologically related to the baby?

No. In gestational surrogacy, the carrier is not biologically related to the baby. The pregnancy is created through IVF using an embryo from the intended parents or donors, not the carrier’s own eggs.

Gestational carriers fully understand this distinction and enter the process with clear expectations, medical guidance, and legal protections in place.

Support for Gestational Carriers

Trusted Guidance for Intended Parents

Ethical Surrogacy, Done the Right Way

Ready to Take the Next Step?

Whether you are exploring surrogacy for the first time or ready to begin your journey, Tandem Surrogacy is here to help you move forward with confidence.