What the Surrogacy Journey Looks Like
Becoming a gestational carrier is not a single decision, but a series of thoughtful steps designed to protect your health, your autonomy, and your experience. Tandem’s process is intentionally structured so you feel informed, supported, and confident before moving forward at each stage.
Step 1 — Submit Your Application
Your surrogacy journey begins with a simple application that allows us to learn about your health history, pregnancy experience, and interest in becoming a gestational carrier.
This step is about gathering information and opening a conversation. Submitting an application does not obligate you to move forward. It simply helps determine whether surrogacy may be a good fit.
Step 2 — Screening and Eligibility
Once your application is reviewed, the next phase focuses on confirming eligibility and readiness. This includes medical review, psychological screening, and background checks.
These evaluations are designed to protect your physical health, emotional wellbeing, and long-term comfort throughout the surrogacy process.
Step 3 — Matching With Intended Parents
After screening, Tandem supports you through the matching phase. This stage is centered on alignment, values, communication style, expectations, and mutual comfort.
You will have the opportunity to meet intended parents, ask questions, and decide whether the connection feels right for you. A match only moves forward when everyone feels confident and aligned.
Step 4 — Legal Preparation and Protection
Before any medical steps begin, legal agreements are prepared to protect you and the intended parents. These contracts outline expectations, responsibilities, and rights so you can move forward with clarity.
You are encouraged to review all documents carefully and ask questions. No medical steps occur until you feel fully informed and comfortable.
Step 5 — Medical Preparation and Embryo Transfer
With legal agreements in place, medical preparation begins under the guidance of your fertility clinic. This phase includes medication protocols, monitoring appointments, and embryo transfer scheduling.
Tandem coordinates logistics and remains available to support you so this phase feels organized and manageable rather than overwhelming.
Step 6 — Pregnancy With Ongoing Support
Throughout pregnancy, Tandem stays actively involved. Our team supports communication, helps coordinate appointments, and advocates for your needs when questions or concerns arise.
Our goal is to ensure you feel cared for physically, emotionally, and logistically from the first trimester through delivery.
Step 7 — Delivery and Postpartum Support
As delivery approaches, Tandem helps coordinate planning and communication so you feel prepared and supported. We remain present through birth and into the postpartum period to ensure your wellbeing continues to be prioritized.
Many surrogates describe this stage as deeply meaningful, knowing they have helped bring a family’s dream to life while being fully supported along the way.
What the Surrogacy Process Feels Like With Tandem
While every journey is unique, Tandem’s surrogate process is designed to feel steady, respectful, and well-supported. You are never pressured to move faster than you are comfortable, and your questions are welcomed at every stage.
Our role is to walk alongside you with guidance, advocacy, and care throughout your surrogacy experience.
