Step 1 — Begin With a Conversation
Every surrogacy journey starts with understanding. Your first step is a complimentary consultation with a Tandem specialist, where we take time to listen to your story, your goals, and answer your questions.
This conversation is not about commitment or pressure. It is an opportunity to learn how surrogacy works for intended parents, explore whether this path feels right for you, and understand how Tandem supports families throughout the process.
Step 2 — Preparing for the Journey Ahead
Once you decide to move forward, the focus shifts to preparation. This phase is about creating a strong foundation so the rest of the journey feels organized and manageable.
During this time, Tandem helps you complete admissions requirements, reviews expectations and timelines, and ensures you feel informed before moving into the next phase. We also begin conversations around planning and coordination so nothing feels rushed or unclear later on.
Step 3 — Moving Into Matching With Confidence
After preparation is complete, your journey transitions into the matching phase. Rather than focusing on mechanics, this stage is about alignment, comfort, and readiness.
Tandem supports you through this step by helping you clarify preferences, boundaries, and communication styles so the matching experience feels intentional and supportive.
Step 4 — Legal Coordination and Medical Readiness
Once a match is in place, the process moves into legal and medical coordination. Tandem works behind the scenes to help align timelines between attorneys, clinics, and care providers so each step progresses smoothly.
For intended parents, this phase often brings reassurance by knowing that agreements are in place, expectations are clearly defined, and medical preparation is moving forward with professional oversight.
Step 5 — Pregnancy With Ongoing Support
Pregnancy is not a “hands-off” phase. Throughout this time, Tandem remains actively involved, supporting communication, coordinating updates, and helping navigate questions as they arise.
Our role is to ensure intended parents feel connected, informed, and supported while respecting boundaries and maintaining a healthy, positive experience for everyone involved.
Step 6 — Preparing for Birth and Parenthood
As the due date approaches, Tandem helps intended parents prepare for delivery and the transition into parenthood. This includes coordination with medical teams, communication planning, and support during one of the most meaningful moments of the journey.
We remain present through birth and beyond, ensuring the final stages of the surrogacy process feel calm, supported, and focused on welcoming your child.
What the Process Feels Like With Tandem
While every surrogacy journey is unique, our process is designed to feel steady, transparent, and guided. You are never expected to navigate decisions alone or manage complex steps without support.
Tandem’s approach helps intended parents move forward with confidence, knowing there is a clear path, a responsive team, and a thoughtful structure supporting each stage.
